You're Not Broken

You’re just ready.

✨ To stop rescuing.
✨ To stop performing.
✨ To choose you.

Who This Is For?

Life Redesign is for the woman who’s done being everything for everyone—except herself.

You might have left a toxic or emotionally abusive relationship, or maybe you're still untangling yourself from one. You might be the one everyone turns to, yet you often feel invisible. You’ve spent decades rescuing, proving, pleasing, and trying to earn love that was never freely given. And now… you’re ready for more.

More peace.
More freedom.
More you.

You’re not looking for another label—you’re looking for a fresh start.

Life Redesign is for you if:

  • You’ve left an abuser, addict, or emotional manipulator and want to rebuild without obsessing over who they were.

  • You’re done with overfunctioning, overgiving, and waiting to be chosen.

  • You’re questioning everything, including who you are outside of your roles as mother, partner, daughter, or carer.

  • You’ve spent years reading self-help books and still feel stuck.

  • You want to reconnect with joy, laughter, and the version of you who feels alive again.

  • You’re curious—not broken—and ready to write a new chapter, your way.

This is a home for women 40+ who are choosing themselves, sometimes for the very first time.
Not because life has been easy, but because they're finally ready to live it on their own terms.

You don't need permission.
You need a path.
And I’m here to walk it with you.

Welcome

I’m Susan, and I help women stop living on autopilot after abuse, abandonment, or burnout—and start creating a life that actually feels like theirs.

I don’t believe you need another label, diagnosis, or long-winded “healing journey.”

  • You need space.
  • You need truth.
  • You need permission to want something more.

This is Life Redesign.

And it begins the moment you say,

“I’m done living like this.”

Life Redesign Pathways

Choose what feels right today!

Personalised Coaching: One-to-One Support to Redesign Your Life

This isn’t therapy.
It’s not a rigid program.
It’s a radical return to yourself—with me walking beside you every step of the way.

My personalised coaching is for women who are ready to stop circling the same patterns and start living life on their own terms. In these one-to-one private sessions, we focus entirely on you—your healing, your desires, your next chapter.

Whether you’re navigating the aftermath of a toxic relationship, breaking free from codependency, or simply asking, “What do I want now?”, we’ll co-create a plan tailored to your life, your pace, and your truth.

What you’ll receive:

  • Private sessions designed around your unique goals and experiences

  • Gentle but powerful tools to help you stop rescuing and start receiving

  • Custom journal prompts and reflective exercises between sessions

  • Practical steps, emotional support, and mindset shifts that actually stick

  • A compassionate guide who sees who you really are—even if you've forgotten

This is your safe space to rebuild. To reclaim. To remember that your life still belongs to you.

Curious about how it could feel to be deeply supported, seen, and free to choose you?

 

Unapologetically You: A Self-Esteem & Self-Worth Journal

You’ve spent long enough apologising for your needs, your truth, your voice.
It’s time to come home to you.

Unapologetically You is more than a journal—it’s a powerful companion on your journey back to yourself. Filled with thought-provoking prompts, space for reflection, and encouragement for your healing heart, this guided journal helps you reconnect with your worth, rebuild confidence, and rediscover the woman you were always meant to be.

Whether you’re recovering from a toxic relationship or simply done shrinking to fit into someone else’s story, this is your invitation to take up space—unapologetically.

✨ Start owning your voice.
✨ Rewrite your beliefs.
✨ Reclaim your life.Let this journal be your mirror, your guide, and your reminder that you are already enough.

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